My contribution to peace

We all wish for peace on earth. But how can we have peace on earth if we are still at war with each other? Here I share how I made peace with my ex-husband. In 2009 my ex-husband and I got married. At that time we were madly in love and thought we would spend the rest

In 2009 my ex-husband and I got married. At that time we were madly in love and thought we would spend the rest of our lives together. After two years of marriage, my ex-husband asked me if it didn’t bother me that we didn’t have any common interest. I said no because I didn’t think it was important. In 2012 we had a son. Fortunately, he is healthy and he is developing very well. In 2017, I had two miscarriages. In 2018, my ex-husband and I had to admit to each other that we are just not right for each other. We are just too different. We have caused so much pain to each other and ourselves over the years.

We ended up going to marriage counseling as well. Sure we had problems at the time, but I thought everyone had them and thought we could work them out. After about 10 hours of counseling, the counselor recommended that we get separated. At this point, we had to admit to ourselves that we were not right for each other. It was extremely difficult to accept this truth. At that time I had a feeling that a world had collapsed inside me. I felt that my family was torn away from me. First, the two miscarriages, and then my marriage fell apart. When my husband moved out at the end of October 2018, I felt a huge relief. We are like two puzzle pieces that don’t fit together. My son noticed right away that I became more relaxed when my ex-husband moved out. A few days later, I met Marion Burkard at a blueprint event. That was when I received the 40-day blueprint. Immediately, I noticed the difference. In December 2018, my son and I received the permanent blueprint. The permanent blueprint had saved my life emotionally at the time because I was going through a very difficult time at the time. Following that we received many different liberations over time and with each liberation I have experienced more and more healing. blueprint.. The permanent blueprint saved me emotionally during a very tough time. In the following years we received many more liberations. With each new liberation that we received I experienced more healing.

A year after the separation, my ex-husband and I had to admit that we still had feelings for each other. In addition, we have a child together and of course, we both wanted our child to grow up with both parents. So we tried one more time. By January 2019, I was so desperate. I wanted so badly for our marriage to work, but it wasn’t looking so good. In January 2019, my ex-husband also got the blueprint.

The blueprint puts everything in divine order. Pretty quickly, we both realized that we really weren’t right for each other. The separation is in our case divine order. Of course, my ex-husband has made personal leaps in development and I am very proud of all the things he has accomplished. Over the months it became easier and easier for us to really let go of each other and both of us experience real healing. Now we are both at peace with each other. Our son surprisingly has taken the whole separation very well and he too feels there is less stress when we are not together. He sees his dad regularly and they both enjoy it when they can spend time together.

I could rave about how great our relationship is now. We support each other and can also calmly talk to each other about why our relationship didn’t work out. The short answer is, we just don’t fit together. And when old wounds come up, we can talk about them and apologize to each other. Our divorce was very peaceful. We divided our assets when my ex-husband moved out, we both want joint custody and there is no fighting about child support either. So far we have also celebrated all major holidays together when possible. I am so grateful that with the help of the blueprint and all the other liberations I was able to make peace with my ex-husband and we now have a very good relationship. I sincerely wish that other separated couples can also make peace.

Many greetings Ruth

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